When someone asks me what fashion or style mistakes I’ve made in the past, I usually comment on wishing I bought things I didn’t – especially in this flexible retail world of doing a simple return if one changes their mind – instead of buying something. I do, however feel regret for things I have worn.

I’m in a bit of a tailspin, festering over the same question that I can’t stop thinking about. Here goes: I listened to an ask for advice podcast – Lainey Gossip’s What’s Your Drama – and a question that is simultaneously trivial and loaded perked up. In 2020, do we have to wear a bra?